When people come to see me about divorce, they often want to know how to safeguard their financial interests during the process. As a divorce lawyer, this is one of my primary roles. As you contemplate divorce or begin the process, following these guidelines will make a significant difference in ensuring that I can give you the best advice and representation:
- Know Your Assets and Liabilities
- Limit Major Transactions Once You File
- Provide Full Disclosure
- Maintain the Financial Status Quo
Know Your Assets and Liabilities
It is important to make sure that you have a full understanding of your financial picture, including your current budget, financial assets, liabilities, income, expenses, savings, and where your assets are located. It is common for one spouse to be more knowledgeable than the other. If you are not involved in managing your finances, it’s perfectly fine to ask your spouse about them. Be honest. If they’ve kept you in the dark, ask them to sit down with you and explain.Provide Full Disclosure
The last people you want to lie to are your attorney and the judge. I encourage my clients to tell me everything, from conduct to financials. It's almost impossible to hide assets. If it's hidden, we'll find it. If incorrect transactions have been made, now is a good time to correct them and we can guide you on the best way to do that. I would rather have all the information ahead of time because my advice is obviously based on that information. If you're not telling me something, then my advice may not be accurate.Once you file for divorce, try your very best to continue to live the same financial life as before you filed.
